Coaching Resistance

Unlock the skills to navigate resistance, coach emotions, and create breakthroughs.

Turn Resistance Into Resilience—and Pushback Into Possibility

Resistance shows up in every coaching relationship. Your clients will inevitably feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or stuck—and you may find yourself unsure how to move forward. These moments can stall growth and leave everyone feeling discouraged.

But resistance doesn’t have to be a dead end. In fact, it can be a portal to growth and connection. 

When you learn to coach strong emotions, you can transform resistance into resilience. You’ll discover how to respond with skill and presence, how to guide educators to see their reactions as sources of wisdom, and how to build momentum toward lasting change.

Grounded in Elena Aguilar’s book, Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching (2024), this dynamic workshop integrates essential strategies for coaching emotions with powerful tools for navigating resistance. As you build your ability to coach others’ resilience, you’ll also strengthen your own—so that coaching becomes more joyful, impactful, and sustainable.

Elena Aguilar

This learning experience is designed for

Coaches

Coaches

New and experienced coaches, mentors, and teacher leaders who want to skillfully navigate moments of resistance

Leaders

Leaders

Managers, principals, and organizational leaders who want to use coaching strategies to support adult growth

Facilitators

Facilitators

Anyone who supports adult learning and development

What You'll Learn

  1. A simple, powerful framework for navigating coaching conversations when resistance shows up
  2. How to recognize, respond to, and reframe emotions like frustration, overwhelm, and annoyance—without escalating tension
  3. How to manage your own emotional responses, so you remain grounded and effective
  4. How coaching for resistance can accelerate educator growth and contributes to retention, fulfillment, and thriving learning communities

How You’ll Spend Your Time

Part One
Part One

Self-Paced Prework

~4 hours

Your experience begins with a self-paced exploration of the foundations of coaching emotions and resistance. Through reading, listening, and guided reflection, you’ll prepare to apply these concepts in live practice.

Part Two
Part Two

Live Learning

4 LEARNING BLOCKS, 8 HOURS TOTAL OVER 2 DAYS

You’ll come together with a Bright Morning facilitator and a community of coaches for a highly interactive learning experience. Across four two-hour learning blocks (spread over two days), you will:

  • Observe masterful coaching in action
  • Engage in coaching role plays focused on resistance and emotions
  • Receive real-time feedback to sharpen your skills
  • Reflect with peers and integrate new practices into your coaching

By the end of this workshop, you’ll have the confidence and strategies to navigate resistance with skill, compassion, and effectiveness—turning moments of challenge into opportunities for transformation.

How You’ll Spend Your Time

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How You’ll Spend Your Time

This training is offered as a 2-day in-person workshop and a virtual blended learning experience. Explore the differences and determine which best meets your needs by clicking on each option below.

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What Else You Need To Know

Requirements

All participants must have a copy of Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching (2024). This book is not included in the registration fee. The book is needed for the prework and live sessions.

Investment

‍Workshop + Coach Learning Library & PLC (Save $195)

  • Individual: $1595 (virtual)
  • Group (6-14 people): *$1495 per person (virtual)

Workshop Only: Virtual

  • Individual: $795†
  • Group (6-14 people): *$695 per person

†Financial Accessibility Rate: $495
This rate is reserved for participants who are experiencing budget limitations and who would not be able to attend otherwise. If you are able to pay the standard registration rate, please do so. This ensures we can continue offering high-quality learning experiences while keeping a reduced rate available for those who truly need it.

‍*Group Rates: All group discounts require a single payment. For large groups (15+), contact us for custom pricing or schedule a consultation call.

Access to Program Content

All sessions will be recorded in the event you cannot make a session or if you would like to rewatch them at a later time. Participants have access to content for 30 days after the last session to help supplement learning.

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Becoming a Bright Morning member is invaluable. The amount of learning and growth that can happen is really up to you. There are a multitude of practical resources, tools, concrete steps, and strategies—having a membership relieves the pressure, so you can go at your own pace. You can get bite-sized pieces of wisdom, or devour it all. I have been a member for two years and continue to learn and grow. The skills I've developed have had a ripple effect on the leaders and schools I work with. I plan to continue being a member for as long as I can!

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My favorite part of being a Bright Morning member is the opportunity to access so many workshops in community with others, and a bank of resources to work through alone. It has been rigorous and invigorating!

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Dom P.
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Since becoming Bright Morning members, our district has adopted a culture of coaching. One of the most impactful and widespread practices has been the implementation of coaching role-play triads. Utilizing Elena’s various coaching toolkits has provided our leaders and coaches with the necessary language and framing to address real-life scenarios. We have been successfully implementing these strategies across all of our leadership and coaching PLCs.

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I love having a Bright Morning membership because it gives me access to an incredible range of resources any time I need them. I have participated in many workshops that provide practical and immediately applicable tools. The membership also offers two different PLCs as safe spaces to think out loud with other school leaders, collaborate, and problem-solve together. As a first year coach at my school, I've especially appreciated the opportunity to meet one-on-one with Bright Morning coaches who have strengthened my practice. I'd absolutely recommend a Bright Morning membership for new or experienced school leaders, instructional coaches, or anyone serving in a leadership role.

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Jess V.
Jess V.
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From co-planning recurring meetings using the frameworks to utilizing the Buddy Pass to get my entire team on the same page, the impact of having a Bright Morning membership has been immediate and profound. The workshops are high-value, well-organized, and packed with 'day-of' utility. If you are looking to sharpen your leadership and align your team’s approach, this membership is an absolute must.

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Danielle N.M.
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My favorite part of being a Bright Morning member is the access to the incredible resources associated with our membership. Bright Morning is already generous with the free tools they provide educators and, as a member, there’s even more access. Another favorite part of my membership is that the incredible trainers actually show us how to use the tools in Elena’s books for full impact. I’ve learned so much about myself and my work and have leveled up my skills as both a coach and trainer. This membership is the gift that keeps giving!

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Jenny T.
Jenny T.
From Our Members

After becoming a Bright Morning member, I feel better equipped to coach emotions, and I recognize the importance of my presence in a coaching conversation. I appreciate having resources and tools from the Team Leader Learning Library, which has supported me to be more intentional in how I'm leading my team of coaches and mentors. My whole team having memberships has also been great because we've been using common language and working from new learning together. I recommend a Bright Morning Membership to coaches who want to enhance or refresh their skills and be more mindful and intentional in their coaching practices. It would also be helpful for a leader who wants to learn and be reminded of how to lead well, build trust, rebuild health within a team, and take their teamwork to the next level.

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