Say, "Goodbye," to Resistance
November 18, 2024
Here’s the most important thing to remember when you encounter resistance: it can only exist when there are two forces.
That’s great news! It means as soon as you decide to stop pushing, the person resisting has nothing to push back against.
A skillful coach or facilitator knows that when they encounter resistance, they need to slow down and provide space to process emotions (usually fear). With nothing left to push against, all of our collective energy can go towards finding a path forward.
I know, this is harder said than done. And even harder when you’re the one standing in front of the group.
If you want to feel calm and collected the next time you face resistance in a meeting or PD, I’ve got you covered:
- Subscribe to my Weekly Wisdom Newsletter to get tips and insights sent to your inbox weekly
- Download my How to Eliminate Resistance free tool
- Read Chapter 3 of The PD Book: Navigate Power
- Listen to this episode of The Bright Morning Podcast
- Join The PD Workshop for a comprehensive learning experience and practice space
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