How to Curb Your “Fix It” Tendency

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May 6, 2024

Best-selling author and coaching expert, Elena Aguilar, brings weekly tips, tools, and wisdom to educators with one goal: to help you thrive.

Many of us respond to problems by attempting to solve them. Doing so in coaching conversations undermines our client’s agency. In this episode, Elena shares what causes a fix-it tendency and five steps you can take to resist it in your conversations.

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Reflection questions:

Recall the last time you slipped into a fix-it tendency:some text
- What uncomfortable emotions were present for you in this moment?
- What element of your conditioning might have been at play?
- In retrospect, what alternative approach would have better served your client?
Elena shared five steps you can take to resist the fix-it tendency. Which will be most challenging for you? How can you build your capacity in this area?

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